Telling Lily that Santa is coming is
contradictory to how I try and parent. I plan on answering her questions
as honestly as I can. I do not want to try and avoid hard or
uncomfortable subjects like death, sex, drugs or anything else that can
be hard to talk about. I think that she has the right to
know if she asks. Obviously I will go about these hard issues
delicately but I will go to them. But Santa? I use to love thinking
that he was real and I don't know if Lily would choose to have that
feeling or not. I just don't know. Do I lie to her but possibly give her
a great memory? Or do I ask her to talk to someone else about him when
she asks me? I just dont know......
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